MANAGING A DIFFICULT DIVORCE: How to Protect Yourself, Protect Your Children, Make Better Decisions and Move Forward

by Sai Lealea MNZM (Author) 

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Divorce is difficult enough. A high-conflict divorce can consume your attention, your finances, your family relationships and your sense of perspective.

Managing a Difficult Divorce is a practical, compassionate guide to making better decisions when separation becomes emotionally charged, financially complicated or persistently adversarial. Drawing on personal experience and hard-earned lessons, Sai Lealea MNZM focuses on a simple objective: protect what matters, reduce unnecessary damage and build a workable path forward.

Inside, you will learn how to recognise repeating conflict patterns without diagnosing your former partner; communicate without feeding arguments; protect children from adult conflict; organise financial and property information; choose and manage lawyers and other professionals; decide when negotiation, mediation or court may be appropriate; document serious problems without letting the dispute take over your life; evaluate settlement realistically; and rebuild after the legal process ends.

The book is deliberately jurisdiction-neutral. It does not tell you what the law is in one country. Instead, it helps you ask better questions, prepare more effectively and know when local legal, financial, child-safety or specialist advice is essential.

This is not a book about defeating your former spouse. It is about getting through a difficult divorce with greater clarity, protecting your children and future, and reaching the point where the divorce no longer defines your life.

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 Fiji Budget 2024 - 25 : Why Raising the Departure Tax was a Mistake?

Raising the departure tax in Fiji could have several negative consequences, despite potential short-term revenue gains. After all, Fiji is already one of the highest airport departure taxes in the world!

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1. Negative Impact on Tourism:

- Fiji relies heavily on repeat visitors who contribute significantly to the tourism sector. An increase in departure tax may discourage these repeat visits, reducing the overall tourism revenue.

- Fiji competes with other tourist destinations in the South Pacific. Higher departure taxes could make Fiji less attractive compared to neighboring countries with lower taxes, leading to a decline in tourist numbers. According to a local economist, tourism is "very price sensitive, so Fiji has to compete on prices to get travellers to choose it as a holiday destination."

- As well, households in key source markets are still dealing with cost-of-living pressures and seeking out value-for-money travel. Raising departure tax makes it a little harder to compete on value for money proposition when competition is red hot

2. Impact on Remittances:

- Many Fijians work overseas and send remittances back home to support their families. Higher departure taxes could increase the financial burden on these workers, potentially reducing the amount they can remit.

- Remittances are a crucial source of foreign exchange and economic stability for Fiji. Any policy that potentially reduces remittances can have broader economic implications.

3. Economic Ripple Effects:

- The tourism industry is a major employer in Fiji. Reduced tourist numbers due to higher departure taxes could lead to job losses and reduced income for those working in tourism-related sectors.

- Many local businesses, from hotels to small vendors, depend on tourists. A decline in visitors could hurt these businesses, impacting the broader economy.

4. Long-term Economic Impact:

- A higher departure tax may signal an unfavorable business environment, potentially deterring foreign investment in the tourism sector and other industries.

- Tourism and remittances are vital for Fiji's economic growth. Policies that could negatively impact these sectors might slow down economic progress and development.

5. Social and Cultural Considerations:

- Higher departure taxes might discourage the Fijian diaspora from visiting home regularly. This could weaken the social and cultural ties that are important for community cohesion and cultural preservation.

- Fiji prides itself on being a welcoming and accessible destination. Raising departure taxes might contradict this image, affecting how the country is perceived internationally.

Conclusion:

While raising the departure tax might provide short-term fiscal benefits, the potential long-term negative impacts on tourism, employment, remittances, and the broader economy could outweigh these benefits. It is crucial for Fiji to maintain a balance that supports sustainable economic growth and remains an attractive destination for both tourists and its diaspora.